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Are you feeling tired? Exhausted? Find yourself burning the candle at both ends? Many times we tend to take care of others before we exercise our own self-love. This can leave us feeling isolated and frustrated with our friends, family and co-workers. We start to question our purpose and path. One of the greatest gifts we can give others is to love ourselves first. When our tank is full we have more to give to others. We will be more patient, listen more intently and give more freely. When we commit to practicing self-love we create inner and outer peace for ourselves.
Follow these 8 Exercises to fill your tank TODAY!
1.Write a poem to yourself.Put pen to paper and write yourself a nice little love poem! It can be as simple as this:
“Roses are Red, Violets are Blue, nobody loves you as much as I do”
2. Write 5 examples of how you’ve grown spiritually over the past year
3. Look at yourself in the mirror and repeat the following:
- I am a good person
- I deserve to love myself
- I deserve true love
- I deserve to be financially abundant
Reminding yourself that you are worthy and there is no need to settle will help you make the choices that are for your highest good. The choices that reflect self-love the most.
4. Remove the word CAN’T from your vocabulary. It's easy to default to using negative language.
When we change our words, we change our thoughts.
5. Pat yourself on the back. Literally. Tell yourself you’ve done a GOOD job at the end of the day! We tend to be so hard on ourselves. We plow forward without ever taking a moment to reflect on what we have accomplished. Take a few minutes at the end of the day and instead of telling yourself what you didn't get done, focus on what you DID accomplish!
6. In the middle of a bit of chaos. Stop yourself. And say “I’ve got this handled”.When we are stressed we lose focus. Our thoughts get cloudy and our decision making skills decrease. Instead of getting frazzled, get it handled. Remember: You got this!
7. Post a couple of positive affirmations sticky notes on your fridge. Create a practice in which you cannot open the fridge until you read them. They will serve as reminders to keep your thoughts positive and your vibration high. They may just be the “pick me up” you need!
8. Write out a list of your t0p 5 accomplishments this past year. By remember what you've done, you will be inspired to do more.
Have you ever been in an unhealthy relationship? One in which you feel as if you've lost yourself and your identity? We have all experienced these unhealthy relationships whether they be romantic, work, friendship or family.
You may feel hurt and angry, yet you still can't seem to move on. Their energy permeates all around you. You go to bed at night thinking about them. These types of relationships can prevent you from moving forward and it feels as if you are being held captive by the cord of their soul.
In order to find freedom, you must cut the cord that connects you to them. When mere thoughts and wishes don't achieve the goal, you can do a cord cutting ceremony to break free from the toxicity once and for all.
Ready to cut the cord & reclaim your life?
Here are 5 Steps to CORD CUTTING
1. WRITE A LETTER:
Write a letter to the person you'd like to cut the cord from. In this letter write out all of your emotions and feelings. Release everything that you have been holding onto for so long, from pain to anger. Let the tears shed if they may, leave nothing behind in this letter. This is EVERYTHING you did NOT get to say to this person and this is your opportunity to express all of your feelings.
2. CHOOSE THE MOON:
Wait for a full or new moon. The moon carries an enormous amount of energy and helps to purge negativity. Don't know when the next NEW or FULL moon occurs? Click HERE to find out.
3. BUILD THE FIRE:
You will now need a fire safe container. With container and letter in hand, go outside and find a space in which you can see the moon. Allow this to be your sacred area for your ceremony.
4. SET THE INTENTION:
Lift your chin and chest up towards the moon and expand your arms as far wide as they will go. Think of surrendering with arms outstretched. Say to the universe:
“I release what no longer serves my highest good and am ready to let go. It is time to surrender and move on. I am excited, willing and open to see what the universe brings to me. With this, I surrender to YOU.”
5. ALLOW FOR RELEASE:
When you are done with your intention, burn the letter in the bin. By burning the letter, you are releasing all of the emotions, fears, toxicity and negativity from this relationship. You are giving permission to the Universe to bring you the future with a clean and open heart allowing this ceremony helps to reset the heart (similar to restarting the computer).
Sometimes a fresh start is all that is needed and these 6 steps help you to let go of an unhealthy relationship and move on once and for all!
Soulmate or Settling? – Find Out in FIVE steps.
With Valentine's Day right around the corner, you may be questioning your romantic status. Are you in a relationship that’s lost its romance and passion or have you reconciled to being alone?
As we grow older, the idea of change is frightening. We stop trusting ourselves and choose to settle for fear of making a mistake.
Here are FIVE steps to finding your truth in Love, Relationships & Romance!
- Look at yourself in the mirror? How do you feel? What do you see? Do you look back at yourself and feel a sense of pride and acceptance for who you are? Or do you see slumped shoulders, an aging body and a tendency to focus on your perceived flaws? It’s so important to look at yourself with love and acceptance. You start with celebrating you! That’s your first step.
2. Let’s say you are in a relationship. When you go to bed at night do you look at your partner and think “I’m really lucky to have this person next to me?” Finding your truth in love, relationships and romance means being able to speak the truth to yourself. If you don’t look at that partner and feel a sense of gratitude and excitement, then you have to ask yourself “WHY?” At what point did it start to taper off? Try to pinpoint the timing of when that feeling started to slip away and then ask yourself what was going on during that time? Sometimes, it’s a matter of refocusing that can bring us closer to our partner.
3. Is the family stepping in too much? Have other family members become so involved in your relationship that you’ve lost a sense of privacy? It’s time to hold your boundaries and politely tell them to butt out!
4. I have so many clients that want to know when their Mr. /Ms. RIGHT is coming along! But when I tap in, its years away and it’s because I’m being told that they aren’t putting themselves out there! You have to make yourself available! You find love when your heart is OPEN! So open your heart.
5. Life is about ACTION! You have to hold yourself accountable for your own happiness. You can’t blame your spouse (or lack thereof) or your family. You are the master of your happiness. Blaming others won’t help you achieve happiness or fulfilment; in fact, it will only lower your vibration. The more positive energy you can focus into your life the more you will see luck, gratitude and opportunity come forward to you because like attracts like!
I hope these 5 steps have given you a starting ground to finding your truth in Love, Relationships & Romance! Happy Valentine’s Day from ME!
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Colby is a professional psychic medium and teacher who enjoys helping students around the world develop their intuitive and spiritual gifts. She’s an internationally recognized Psychic Medium, Certified Master Spiritual Teacher, Radio Host of the hit show Live with Colby Psychic Rebel, Best-Selling Author & Public Speaker located in Los Angeles, CA. Colby is a certified master teacher of the LWISSD. Colby spent 14 years in tax and accounting and in 2016 she released her book Leap Of Faith: How To Build Your Spiritual Business which quickly became an Amazon best seller.
I had so much fun being on MTV for the premiere of Teen Mom OG in which I predicted Teen Mom Amber Portwood's pregnancy. Amber rolls her eyes, like “ummm, not going to happen”, lol and two months later she reveals that she was indeed now pregnant!
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Sex with Emily is on Psychic REBEL Live! If you missed last week's episode of Psychic REBEL Live on ubnradio.com, it's not too late! You can still catch the video here. Dr. Emily Morse the host of the famed podcast Sex with Emily as she talks about relationships, intimacy and affairs as we take live callers!
Dr. Emily Morse is a sex and relationship expert and host of the top downloaded podcast Sex with Emily. Emily was voted the #1 dating and sex expert by DatingAdvice.com and the #1 dating and sex expert to follow on Twitter. She is also the author of Dr. Emily Morse is a sex and relationship expert and host of the top downloaded podcast Sex with Emily. She has helped millions of struggling couples achieve the sex and relationships they desired in order to maintain happiness and longevity. Emily was voted the #1 dating and sex expert by DatingAdvice.com and the #1 dating and sex expert to follow on Twitter, and has proven to be the go-to for all things sex and relationships.”>Hot Sex: Over 200 Things you can try tonight!
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Colby is also a published author in the esteemed publications OM Times Magazine and Finer Minds.
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Join Colby-Psychic Rebel as she guest hosts this Sunday for a special Valentine's Day celebration on Just Believe. Call in and get your questions answered LIVE this Sunday at 4pm|7pm pst/est on BLOG TALK radio.
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Colby is a master spiritual teacher of the LWISSD and a certified and tested member of Best American Psychics by Shay Parker. Colby currently resides in Los Angeles, CA where she serves as a professional psychic, medium, teacher, author and public speaker. CLICK HERE to book a session with Colby.
Transition of a loved one is never an easy experience. Here are 7 Ways to help your loved in the final stages of life.
I recently went back home to a loved one who was in the stage IV of lung cancer. To see someone who was once so strong become so physically small and weak was nothing short of heartbreaking. It’s no secret that cancer is a beast. It’s a merciless villain that can destroy the youngest, strongest & healthiest person. We seem to be unable to find all of the causes and tend to question the reasons behind why some fall victim to the deadly disease.
According to the American Cancer Society, it is estimated that over 589,000 (approx. 1,600 per day) deaths as a result of cancer in 2015. Currently, Cancer is the 2nd leading cause of death in the United States (and it’s expected to rise to number one within the next few years). These are some startling facts.
There are many who “beat” cancer. For them, this is an accomplishment that truly deserves bragging rights because they endured so much to become cancer free. However, for those who have succumbed to cancer, it does not mean they are any less deserving of a cure, or that they didn’t fight enough. It is sometimes just the life path of soul. As hard as it may be for us to understand, there are just some experiences that are beyond our comprehension, yet it’s never too late to express your love.
When you see someone in the last days of his or her life, you are looking at the face of death. However, you are also looking at the face of life. Their spirit journey is beginning. Here are 7 Ways to express your love when one is transitioning to the spirit world.
Although, there is never a guarantee, it is with great love these tip are offered to you.
- TOUCH Them. By touching your loved one, you are sending them energetic vibrations that they can feel. Yes, they may be fragile, but sharing your touch with them will reach senses beyond their hearing, and seeing. Feeling is one of our most intuitive senses. Our “gut” is always on and signaling to our heart and brain. By touching a loved one, you are reminding them that they are loved to the deepest core. They may not be able to process thoughts as quickly and easily in these final days so the touch is something they don’t have to absorb. They can just “feel” your love.
- LOOK at them. If your loved one is still in an awake state, make eye contact. Look at them with love and without pity and sorrow. Tell them telepathically that they are loved. Show them in your eyes, how their spirit has touched your life. Reminding them of how they impacted others will help show them that they had purpose. Their existence in the physical realm made a difference.
- TALK to them. Let them hear your voice. You may think your loved one cannot hear you if they’ve fallen into a coma or are in the final moments of transition. Trust that they can still hear you. There are so many times that spirit gives me the messages of their loves ones as validation that they heard them in the “final” moments. In the coma state, your loved one may be experiencing both realms. The physical realm and the spiritual realm. Even if they are spending time in the spirit realm, their spirit can still absorb your words. So speak them freely. Allow yourself to express the love you have. Again, having a person know they are loved will help them transition with a sense of peace.
- GIVE them permission. Let them know that it’s OK for them transition. Give your permission. Many times a loved one is holding on for those left behind in the physical realm. Let them know that you are OK. Thank them for caring and always being there for you, but now it’s time for them to take the next step of their journey. To see their other loved ones (and pets) in spirit. To return to the universal love of spirit.
- ENCOURAGE the light. In the final moments, tell them how beautiful the light is, Tell them to see the light and that it’s home for them. To feel the warmth and love of the light. This will gently guide them to the direction of the spirit realm and release the physical.
- BE PRESENT. Be present in their presence. It’s hard to see a loved in any discomfort, but try not to pull away emotionally to numb the feelings. By staying present, your soul will be connecting with their soul. It’s just reassuring to one in transition that they are not alone. So share your soul with them.
- Remain CALM. During the last moments of a your loved ones physical existence, you may see them experiencing difficulty in breathing. They may be making noise or unusual facial expressions. Try to remain calm. This is the moment you can give them the most love possible because you can be gentle, guiding and peaceful. Think of it as the birth of a newborn emerging from the womb or a baby waking from a nap. In which they we want to make the transition from the one stage to the next as calm as possible without jarring their energy field. This may be the most challenging moment for you personally, but it will also be the one in which you can give the most love because you are celebrating their “graduation” with them.
If you are not present when your loved one transitions, please trust that it wasn’t supposed to be a part of either of your paths. Release any regret or guilt that you may be holding on to as it all within divine timing and experience.
Watching a loved one transition is not easy, but remembering that they are returning home may bring you some comfort. We are born from spirit and enter into the physical realm. Upon completion of our physical experience we return to our spiritual home. Your loved ones live on. They release their physical body, but the true essence of everything they encompass will stay with them and with you.
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Colby is a master spiritual teacher of the LWISSD and a certified and tested member of Best American Psychics by Shay Parker. Colby currently resides in Los Angeles, CA where she serves as a professional psychic, medium, teacher author and public speaker. Colby is not a doctor or medical intuitive. In no way is this article intended to be taken as a diagnosis or medical treatment. Always seek the guidance of a professional for medical treatment. CLICK HERE to book a session with Colby.