Are you tired of dating? Ready to find your Soulmate? Here are 5 tips to help you attract your Soulmate!
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Have you ever been in an unhealthy relationship? One in which you feel as if you've lost yourself and your identity? We have all experienced these unhealthy relationships whether they be romantic, work, friendship or family.
You may feel hurt and angry, yet you still can't seem to move on. Their energy permeates all around you. You go to bed at night thinking about them. These types of relationships can prevent you from moving forward and it feels as if you are being held captive by the cord of their soul.
In order to find freedom, you must cut the cord that connects you to them. When mere thoughts and wishes don't achieve the goal, you can do a cord cutting ceremony to break free from the toxicity once and for all.
Ready to cut the cord & reclaim your life?
Here are 5 Steps to CORD CUTTING
1. WRITE A LETTER:
Write a letter to the person you'd like to cut the cord from. In this letter write out all of your emotions and feelings. Release everything that you have been holding onto for so long, from pain to anger. Let the tears shed if they may, leave nothing behind in this letter. This is EVERYTHING you did NOT get to say to this person and this is your opportunity to express all of your feelings.
2. CHOOSE THE MOON:
Wait for a full or new moon. The moon carries an enormous amount of energy and helps to purge negativity. Don't know when the next NEW or FULL moon occurs? Click HERE to find out.
3. BUILD THE FIRE:
You will now need a fire safe container. With container and letter in hand, go outside and find a space in which you can see the moon. Allow this to be your sacred area for your ceremony.
4. SET THE INTENTION:
Lift your chin and chest up towards the moon and expand your arms as far wide as they will go. Think of surrendering with arms outstretched. Say to the universe:
“I release what no longer serves my highest good and am ready to let go. It is time to surrender and move on. I am excited, willing and open to see what the universe brings to me. With this, I surrender to YOU.”
5. ALLOW FOR RELEASE:
When you are done with your intention, burn the letter in the bin. By burning the letter, you are releasing all of the emotions, fears, toxicity and negativity from this relationship. You are giving permission to the Universe to bring you the future with a clean and open heart allowing this ceremony helps to reset the heart (similar to restarting the computer).
Sometimes a fresh start is all that is needed and these 6 steps help you to let go of an unhealthy relationship and move on once and for all!
Soulmate or Settling? – Find Out in FIVE steps.
With Valentine's Day right around the corner, you may be questioning your romantic status. Are you in a relationship that’s lost its romance and passion or have you reconciled to being alone?
As we grow older, the idea of change is frightening. We stop trusting ourselves and choose to settle for fear of making a mistake.
Here are FIVE steps to finding your truth in Love, Relationships & Romance!
- Look at yourself in the mirror? How do you feel? What do you see? Do you look back at yourself and feel a sense of pride and acceptance for who you are? Or do you see slumped shoulders, an aging body and a tendency to focus on your perceived flaws? It’s so important to look at yourself with love and acceptance. You start with celebrating you! That’s your first step.
2. Let’s say you are in a relationship. When you go to bed at night do you look at your partner and think “I’m really lucky to have this person next to me?” Finding your truth in love, relationships and romance means being able to speak the truth to yourself. If you don’t look at that partner and feel a sense of gratitude and excitement, then you have to ask yourself “WHY?” At what point did it start to taper off? Try to pinpoint the timing of when that feeling started to slip away and then ask yourself what was going on during that time? Sometimes, it’s a matter of refocusing that can bring us closer to our partner.
3. Is the family stepping in too much? Have other family members become so involved in your relationship that you’ve lost a sense of privacy? It’s time to hold your boundaries and politely tell them to butt out!
4. I have so many clients that want to know when their Mr. /Ms. RIGHT is coming along! But when I tap in, its years away and it’s because I’m being told that they aren’t putting themselves out there! You have to make yourself available! You find love when your heart is OPEN! So open your heart.
5. Life is about ACTION! You have to hold yourself accountable for your own happiness. You can’t blame your spouse (or lack thereof) or your family. You are the master of your happiness. Blaming others won’t help you achieve happiness or fulfilment; in fact, it will only lower your vibration. The more positive energy you can focus into your life the more you will see luck, gratitude and opportunity come forward to you because like attracts like!
I hope these 5 steps have given you a starting ground to finding your truth in Love, Relationships & Romance! Happy Valentine’s Day from ME!
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